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Tuesday
Sep232014

Heartfelt Leadership introduces the "Diamond Rule" 

The Golden Rule: Do Onto Others As You Would Have Them To Onto You

The Platinum Rule: Do Onto Others As They Would Have You Do Onto Them

The Diamond Rule: Do Onto Others As Someone Special Did Onto You

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Tuesday
Sep092014

What does "Daring to Care" mean?

If you're not taking the time and making the effort to find out what really matters to your client and then have that matter to you more than what you care about, you're not in the service business, you're in sales. And if what matters to your client equals what matters to you, you're not in the service or sales business, you're in the exchange business.

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Thursday
Aug282014

8/25/14 Webinar How to Overcome Resistance to Change in Others and Yourself

If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change – Wayne Dyer

What if we considered that resistance doesn’t exist, but rather what exists is each person needing to persist in what they believe to be true which informs their identities and which they will protect from anything or anyone else telling them any differently?

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Saturday
Aug022014

Warren Bennis (1925-2014) - A Personal Remembrance

My last living mentor, Warren Bennis died on 7/31 at the age of 89 from an age related illness.  Warren was not just admired and respected; he was beloved.  I think it was because within two minutes of meeting him you got this feeling that you could trust him to never hurt you. That's a rare quality in this world and I remember him appearing pleased to be characterized that way.

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Friday
Aug012014

What's THEIR Why? A Formula for World Peace

Brandeis + Zuckerberg + Sinek + Mothers = World Peace

Before you read this... "Just Listen"

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Wednesday
Jul302014

Israel vs. Hamas - Try a Little Mirror Neuron Diplomacy

First seek to understand and then be understood- Stephen Covey

 Without truly understaning each other’s position and more importantly understanding how each side came to believe, draw conclusions and view the world, there is little hope for a lasting peace between Israel and the PLO and especially its more extreme Hamas faction.

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Friday
Jul252014

Healing the World, One Conversation at a Time

What if...

Every conversation that is taking place between Republican and Democrat, US and Russia, Israel and Hammas, husband and wife, parent and child where people are talking at or over each other could immediately change to people talking with each other.

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Thursday
Jul172014

Overcome Any Obstacle

Step 1: Own It — It wasn’t a bad dream… it happened.  Accept that it happened.
Step 2: Desired Outcome — Now what?
Step 3: Control — What you can do without needing anyone else to move towards that desired outcome?
Step 4: Influence — What is something you can’t do, that you will need others to provide and a plan for influencing them?
Step 5: Response-ability — What you actually do back towards the environment after you have gone through steps 1-4.

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