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Thursday
Jul302015

My Anniversary Reaction to Warren Bennis' Death

"Warren, you liked me! You really liked me!" - with appreciation to Sally Field

My last mentor, Warren Bennis, died a year ago on July 31, 2014.  As a psychiatrist I have known about and observed what is referred to as anniversary reactions in friends and patients, but I have never experienced one of my own.  That is until today.

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Sunday
Apr262015

Bruce Jenner, You are not alone

There is no shortage of people like Bruce Jenner whose thoughts, feelings and actions defy analysis even as they crave understanding.

If I'm like you and you're like me, we both watched Diane Sawyer's interview of Bruce Jenner and you too may have been transfixed by it being poignant, touching and not unfamiliar.

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Sunday
Apr052015

Hurting vs. Healing the World, One Conversation at a Time

The measure of a civilization is how it treats those who have hurt it and who are hurting in it... wouldn't you agree? (adpated from Winston Churchill)

Man's inhumanity to his fellow man

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Man's power to heal his fellow man

What would happen to the world if every day every person spoke with another person as Naomi Feil did with Gladys Wilson?

Saturday
Jan032015

Calling All Boards of Directors! The Men Who Should Be King

Inspired by Michal Lev-Ram's Fortune cover story, "Disney CEO Bob Iger's Empire of Tech" (you should read it)

One of your most important responsibilities to the companies whose boards you serve on is to make sure it has the best CEO.

If you agree, I think you need look no further than Tim Cook at Apple and Bob Iger at Disney.

Why?

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Wednesday
Dec242014

After Christmas Tale - After Joy to the World, Remember...

This has been a year that can use all the Joy we can feel.  But when Xmas and Joy to the World pass on December 26, we should remember that "what the world needs now is love sweet love."

Love at its best overflows with tenderness. Tenderness is what comforts and heals pain and suffering from the inside out.  Pain is pain, suffering is being alone in pain.  When you take away people's aloneness, suffering they can't tolerate becomes pain that they can. The problem and challenge is that tenderness can't be rushed and in our go-go, get more, sooner world it is actually in danger of becoming extinct.

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Sunday
Dec212014

Peace of Mind, Peace on Earth Tool (POMPOE)

Perceiving is believing.

 

Peace of Mind, Peace on Earth Tool (POMPOE)

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Sunday
Dec212014

What Makes Kim Jong Un and Putin Tick and What Ticks Them Off?

Arrogance + Power + Humiliation = Eye for an eye retaliation

Since I posted my previous blog, A New Paradigm to Fix the World - Fixing a Failure to Consider, I've heard from many others. Their reponses further caused me to ponder how little America truly understands other countries and other leaders such as Kim Jong Un and Putin.

The more primitive, arrogant and prideful a person's personality (not to be confused with lack of intelligence), the more inclined they are to react in an: "eye for an eye" fashion especially when they feel humiliated.

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Thursday
Dec182014

A New Paradigm to Fix the World - Fixing Failing to Consider

In the iconic movie Cool Hand Luke, the prison Captain played by Strother Martin uttered on more than one occasion the iconic line, “What we’ve got here is failure to communicate.”

That situation appears every bit as present today as it was then.  The reason it continues is what underlies a failure to communicate.  And that is a failure to consider.

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