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Thursday
Apr172014

What's It Like to Feel Schizophrenic?

Watch as Mark's shares a nightmare he had about being a homeless schizophrenic to get the brief glimpse he had... and then say, "Hello in There."

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Friday
Apr112014

How to Grieve

http://images.latinopost.com/data/images/full/4621/malaysia-airlines-flight-370.jpg?w=600Whether it’s the families of the passengers of Malaysia Airlines Flight 370 or of those killed at Ft. Hood or of the children who died in a fiery bus crash near Sacramento, not to mention the families of soldiers continuing to die on active duty or by suicide back home, there is no shortage of grieving people left behind.

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Thursday
Apr102014

Don’t Let Your “Naysayers” Drive Away Your “Yaysayers

Imagine that the top 10 % of a company are “Yaysayers,” the middle 80 % are “Maybesayers” and the bottom 10 % are “Naysayers.”

If the middle 80 % can be pulled in either direction, the last thing you want is for the “Naysayers” to suck them down into their negativity.  What should you do?

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Saturday
Apr052014

No More "Freebies"

http://beijingdaze.com/images/2013/03/freebies.pngIf you sacrifice being respected
in order to liked,
you won't be either.
And if you expect to be paid without asking
you won't be that either.

Sound familiar? I recently sat down with a fellow excess “freebie” giver. 

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Thursday
Mar202014

3/28, 10-11 am pst, FREE Webinar on Follow Through with Dr. Mark Goulston

To register go to: Register for Free Webinar on Follow Through with Dr. Mark Gouston, Dr. Ivan Misner and Eddie Esposito. 

And sign up for Dr. Goulston's Usable Insight mailing by entering your email (which will not be shared with anyone) at: Newsletter Signup (and catch this week's Usable Insight - How to Improve Cooperation - Try a Double Dose of Assertive Humility).

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What separates the people that habitually achieve their goals and create the results they desire from those who don't?  

You already know the answer.  It's follow through. Why is it that some people follow through while others don't? Follow through means never having to say you're sorry... or make excuses that only cause others and you to feel badly about yourself.

In this engaging free webinar you will discover the real reason people don't follow through and how you can make sure that YOU do.

If you or someone you know would like to improve your or their follow-through, you will want to catch this program with Dr. Mark Goulston, Ivan Misner, and Eddie Esposito

Dr. Goulston is the #1 international best selling author of six books including: Get Out of Your Own Way, "Just Listen" Discover the Secret to Getting Through to Absolutely Anyone and REAL INFLUENCE: Persuade Without Pushing and Gain Without Giving In. He writes the Tribune syndicated career advice column, "Solve Anything with Dr. Mark," and blogs for Psychology Today, Fast Company, Business Insider and the Huffington Post. He appears frequently on television and radio including: Good Day LA, CNN and Oprah and speaks to audiences around the world.  He is the Co-Founder of the global community, Heartfelt Leadership whose Mission is Daring to Care.
 
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Tuesday
Mar182014

How to Improve Cooperation - Try a Double Dose of Assertive Humility

http://static.hbr.org/hbrg-main/resources/images/hbr_opengraph_360x185.pngFrom HBR: To Collaborate More, Try an Olive Branch on Steroids

With the exception of “dyed-in-the-wool” unforgiving types (you know, the ones who seem to delight in ruining family holiday dinners), one of the things that nearly the rest of all other people are defenseless against is a sincere, earnest, unsolicited apology.

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Saturday
Mar152014

10 Things Smart Founders Do to Mess Up Their Company

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“Everybody here has the ability to do anything I do and much beyond. Some of you will and some of you won’t. For those who won’t, it will be because you get in your own way, not because the world doesn’t allow you.”

- Warren Buffett speaking the University of Washington

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Wednesday
Mar052014

Calling All Skeptics, Cynics and Pessimists

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- A skeptic is someone who is reluctant to believe;
- A cynic is someone who refuses to believe;
- A pessimist is someone who has given up on believing.

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